I couldn't help but laugh..... love the holidays and loved this post. It really does feel like another full time job. (P.S. our elf "Snuffy" hasn't moved in 2 nights... the real reason: mom has been slammed with different things in life and has forgotten.... the kids think: Snuffy hasn't moved because they have been horrible the past 2 days... no lie on that note! Hopefully Snuffy can relocate tonight.)
By now we have all heard of the adorable little
The Elf on the Shelf. Almost everyone I know has one. Some people even have two!
(Now I'm having guilt for not having two, because apparently I need
two because when my kids are adults they'll each want one from their childhood.
Ugh. Not looking forward to that conversation with the Hubs when I tell him
why we need another Elf.)
The Elf is a handy little thing to have. The
little bastard keeps my children in check this time of year. When there is even
a HINT of rebellion all I have to do is say, "Elf" and they snap back in line.
If he's so good, Jen, then why did you call him a bastard? you ask. I
called him a bastard, because even though my children think he's magic,
I'm the one doing all the "magic" and I totally suck at it. I forget to
move him all the time and when I forget I have to spin even MORE lies than
usual. ("No, Santa can't give you the $400 Lego Death Star. Even though he
says he makes everything, he can't make Legos and he has to actually go
and buy them and he can't spend that much money on you." or "Well, I don't know
why he gave it to your friend last year for Christmas. I'm sure his mommy and
daddy paid Santa to do that and we don't pay Santa." Thanks a lot, asshole
parents who gave their kid the Death Star from Santa! As parents, let's all
make a pact that any gift over $200 comes from grandma and grandpa rather than
Santa, OK? It would make my life a lot easier.)
But back to our Elf.
Our Elf has been a lazy SOB this year. He usually makes his first appearance
Thanksgiving night (I get him out when I'm on my way out at 3 AM for Black
Friday). This year we left town and I forgot. He waited until we came back and
then he was ready join our family. Since then he's only gone away 4 maybe 5
times. We are always forgetting to move him. And it should not be difficult.
I am literally moving him from the top shelf in my kitchen to the bottom shelf
and back again. I'm such a loser that I can't even do that right.
I
heard some over achieving moms talking one day about how they like to make their
Elf do "naughty" things. What exactly does that mean? I asked. "Oh, you know,
he bakes cookies in the night and leaves a huge mess for me to clean up in the
morning." WTF??? "Yes, or one time last year, he took all the ornaments off
our tree! Teeheeehee."
Teeheehee?!! Why in the world would I make my
Elf do something like that?
I'm the one who has to clean up his mess and
redecorate my tree! All so my kid could ooh and ahh over the magic of the Elf
for about 3 minutes until the next shiny object caught their eye? I decided
these women were insane.
But then I started listening closer and
realized they are not alone. There are entire blogs out there right now
dedicated to naughty/fun Elf behavior. People like Danielle over at
Blossom Bunkhouse. I read her blog and I got really pissed off. I should have
known she'd irritate me when I read her
perky-mom-who-loves-to-make-amazing-homemade-memories-with-her-kids-when-she's-not-secretly-downing-Valium-and-Vodka-so-she-can-be-so-damn-perky-and-fun
title for her blog. (In case you haven't guessed, I'm proudly un-medicated and
I have the mood swings to prove it.)
Blossom has 101 Fun Ideas to do with
your Elf. ONE HUNDRED AND ONE. As a friend pointed out, there are only 25 days
until Christmas - why 101?!!
I wanted to punch her as soon as I read her
top 2:
1. Have a marshmallow fight (marshmallows everywhere).
2.
Have a pillow fight (feathers everywhere).
OK, seriously? Does she have
a clue how much a feather pillow costs? The hell I'm going to destroy it just
so I can sweep it up again in the morning!
Or like I have time, desire or
resources to make
this red
carpet entrance for a doll. I can barely get him out of the box and prop him up
on the shelf. We haven't even read the book yet this year and she wants me to
literally roll out a red carpet for him. When does she do laundry? When does
she work? And most importantly, when does she sleep?
20. Make faces on
school pictures with a marker.
I lecture my children constantly on
appropriate materials to write on with markers. A photograph is not one of
those things. It would take years to undo that damage if I did that. I'd have
mustaches on every photograph in my home. "The Elf did it!"
24. Read a
book.
Yeah, I tried that one on my own the other day (didn't even need
Blossom's help to come up with that one). The Hubs didn't see him on the couch
reading and he sat on him. Kids couldn't find him because he wasn't on his
usual shelf. So much for trying to think outside the box...shelf.
32.
Switch clothes from one closet to another.
And I do this when? 4 AM
when everyone is asleep and I'm hauling dresses and jeans from one room to
another? And we're assuming my children would even NOTICE I did
this.
42. Take picture of child sleeping.
This is one I would do
just to scare the snot out of them. I'd like to perch the Elf right on their
sleeping heads and take a picture of that. I could probably whip that picture
out in the summer when they're being bad and it would scare them enough to knock
it off. I'll bookmark that one.
44. Knit a scarf or hat.
When
I'm not trashing my house with feathers, flour or drawing on the walls I'll whip
up a handmade hat, Psycho.
64. Learn multiplication facts.
Huh?
Just set him on the table with flashcards? I guess I could do that, but it
sounds as boring as my shelf.
80. Elf packs school lunches but mixes up
everyone's lunches. (Each child receives sibling's lunch - great conversation
piece at dinner.)
Or source of meltdown at school - you
pick.
93. Sit on toilet OUTSIDE on front lawn - if you happen to have an
extra toilet being stored.
WTF? Who has an "extra" toilet they can put
in the yard? Either she's grasping at straws to get to 101 or she's white
trash.
He's called The Elf on the Shelf, not the Elf who Skydives, Takes
Bubble Baths and Shaves the Dog! Leave him on the shelf so the rest of us
slackers don't look so bad. I think I'm just going to lay my Elf on his shelf,
tape wires and hoses to him and tell my kids he's in a coma and hopefully he'll
recover before Christmas. That should give me some flexibility.
